by Wen Soon | May 30, 2019 | Relationship Advice
Psychologist Arthur Aron did a study exploring if a set of questions would spark a stronger connection between two people. It did not start off with the intention of creating romantic love, but a rumor has sparked that these questions have been used to help people...
by Wen Soon | May 28, 2019 | Relationship Advice
The First Sign: Hostile Start The fastest way to tell the future of any relationship is to observe the way a person speaks and expresses themselves at the beginning of any conversation to their partner. Have you ever gone on a first date and heard that the first...
by Wen Soon | May 25, 2019 | Relationship Advice
In John Gottman’s book, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, he brings up these four types of traits that appear when couples argue. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Each of these traits does not necessarily follow a...
by Wen Soon | May 23, 2019 | Relationship Advice
Take Turns Nothing shuts down a conversation faster than not being heard. When you’re not being heard, you unconsciously “check out” of the conversation because you no longer feel invested. No one person gets to monopolize the time. A good way to...
by Wen Soon | May 22, 2019 | Relationship Advice
When we’re in relationships, we can often get lost about what the best advice is. John Gottman, who wrote a book on what makes successful marriages, researched and compiled a list of ideas. I found that much of the advice is also helpful for people in all...